Yesterday's Capture Your Grief topic is Secondary Losses. I can honestly say that I believe the secondary loss I had when Faith died was her life as a whole. In this I include her relationship, her love, seeing her "firsts", watching her grow, seeing her walk, talk, drive, graduate, marry, have children of her own, etc...
I guess there are countless secondary losses I feel when describing losing Faith. When you think of what a person's life encompasses throughout their entire life, this is a huge loss. Every moment of the rest of my life, I have lost something that I should be sharing with Faith.
There is no healing from this "secondary" loss. It is something you simply have to live with for the rest of your life.
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